William Glasser: A Life to Celebrate
William Glasser passed away on August 23, 2013. He was 88 years.
As an every-man psychiatrist, Glasser was appreciated by people around the world for his views on mental health and his strategies for counselors and especially educators. A progressive before it was in fashion to be progressive, he rejected commonly held beliefs that blamed mental disease for people’s behavior and instead described methods whereby people could recognize their own role in returning to wellness.
Glasser’s ideas on mental health began to form in the late 1950s when he worked with veterans in a mental hospital in Los Angeles and with delinquent teenage girls in a prison school. He burst onto a national stage, though, when he published Reality Therapy in 1965, and then Schools Without Failure in 1969. Reality Therapy was like a psychiatric shot heard around the world and he began to receive a lot of attention, especially from those working within the helping professions — counselors, social workers, corrections officers, addiction clinics, and especially teachers.
Reality therapy went on to become one of the main talking therapy options that future therapists learned about in degree programs and established Glasser as one of the most well-known psychiatrists in the world. He believed that the concept that people suffer from a mental illness was actually a road block to effective treatment, rather than being a help. Glasser wanted to compassionately help people become stronger and more responsible. To that end, reality therapy emphasized the need for a warm, caring relationship between therapist and patient; was built on the belief that people are capable of becoming responsible for their behavior; focused on the present and future, rather than the past; focused on present, conscious thinking and behavior, rather than trying to discover “unconscious” thought patterns; and desired to teach patients ways to fulfill their own needs within an effective (personal) moral framework. It was a groundbreaking approach that ultimately led to many others also building on the site that he began.
School principals and teachers recognized something special in reality therapy that could make a positive difference in the lives of students and when Glasser received a large grant to improve public education in 1967 the Educator Training Center was established and he embarked on a lifelong quest to show educators the importance of providing a need-satisfying environment for students. Of his 23 books, five of them were exclusively school related.
Glasser came to be known for control theory, the theory that he felt explained why reality therapy was so effective. Control theory described how people are internally motivated and are always acting in a way that they think will best meet their needs, which may even include choosing to be miserable. He became known for his emphasis on the idea that the only person we can control is ourself. Mental health, or happiness, is maintained as a person learns to stop trying to control others behavior and instead learns how to form and keep good relationships with the important people in his life. Glasser liked the details of control theory, but not the label, and in 1996 he changed the label to choice theory, which he felt more accurately described the essence of his beliefs.
Glasser was a prolific writer and lecturer and leaves behind a body of work–23 books, multiple booklets, and many, many journal articles– that will provide support and challenge traditional approaches for years to come. Besides eight active regional organizations throughout the U.S., the Glasser Institute also has a presence in more than 20 countries on six continents. Australia is one of the countries that has especially embraced Glasser’s ideas.
Glasser became a board-certified psychiatrist in 1961, and while he was well known in the popular press, he was not embraced by his own field. Writing books like Warning: Psychiatry Can Be Hazardous to Your Mental Health (2003) may have something to do with that. Being progressive has a price. Yet, even though he was somewhat ignored within psychiatry, toward the end of his career he received a great deal of official appreciation. In 2003 Glasser received the Professional Development Award from the American Counseling Association for his significant contributions to the field of counseling. The following year the ACA conferred to him the Legend in Counseling Award for his development of reality therapy. In 2005, along with being one of the faculty for the esteemed Evolution of Psychotherapy conference, he was presented the prestigious Master Therapist designation by the American Psychotherapy Association. He received two honorary doctorates–one from the University of San Francisco in 1990 and the other from Pacific Union College in 2006. And in May, 2013, Glasser was officially recognized by the California state senate for a lifetime of achievements and his meritorious service to humanity.
Glasser was preceded in death by his first wife, Naomi, and his son, Joe. He is survived by his wife, soul mate, and co-author, Carleen; and his daughter, Alice, and son, Martin; five grandchildren and two great-grandchildren; as well as his brother, Henry, and sister, Janet. He is survived, too, by the many who heard him talk and read his books and articles and who, in some small way, felt like they were his soul mate as well. To his loved ones and close friends, and to every one of his “survivors” — Here’s to a life of choice!
What could be added to this tribute to make it even better? What did I leave out?
Thank you to those of you who responded to the initial announcement of Bill’s passing away. Some very heartfelt and eloquent thoughts were expressed in those comments.
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More “literal survivors” . . . . . .Can you imagine the size and number of the group who have been touched by those using the philosophy and tools taught by Bill? Most probably never knew “the man,” but did feel the powerful impact of “his touch” on their lives.
There was something about what he wrote and the way it touched people. He was able to tap into beliefs that people ultimately had deep inside, and fan them into a fire.
Wow, I wouldn’t know how to add to this. I think this is a lovely tribute to someone who has been blessed with a message that has changed lives.
As an educator and an education consultant, Glasser’s books were must reads. He truly was a leader that helped teachers, including me, to become more knowledgeable so they could better meet the needs of their students.
Annette, may your voice grow and your educational views expand to influence your colleagues. Your students are fortunate to have you as their teacher or principal. Do you remember the first Glasser book you read?
I would include that he was preceded in death by his first wife, Naomi, and his son, Joe. Otherwise, it is great.
Thank you for this reminder, Maggie. Your wording is helpful, too.
Nice tribute, Jim. When will we be able to get the biography? ( Brian Lennon mentions 59 countries in which training has been done. You might also share that there are Glasser Quality Schools following his model in eight countries around the globe.) We were especially fortunate to know him and will treasure special memories we each have of our associations with him. Thanks for your tireless efforts to document the man and his work!
Great reminders regarding the countries in which Glasser training has taken place and in which there are Glasser Quality Schools.
As far as when the biography is coming out, I am as curious about that as you are. I am confident it will be published before early December, when the Evolution of Psychotherapy conference takes place, but other than that I am not sure.
I am sorry to learn of William Glasser’s passing. He lived a life that has positively impacted people and many lives have been improved because of him. That is a tremendous accomplishment. His family should be proud.
I am lifting up prayers for them in this time of loss.
I have always found a great ‘coming together-of-ideas’ ever since becoming certified in Reality Therapy and subsequently in reading the works of Stephen Covey. I have applied and used both their concepts widely in assisting inthe rehabiltation of people with AOD addictions. I haver taught nmany of the concepts of both these giants, to my reidential clients and, although struggling with them in my own life’s journey from time to time, I have also taught and demonstrated them to my own family, who all agree that they have become ‘more complete as human beings’ recognising the need to accept responsibility for their lives, As a former member of the William Glasser Institute of Australia, I share in the sadness regarding Bill’s passing, but rejoice in what he has taught me and many others. Although it is now over a year, my prayers are with all thjose who grieve his loss.