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Luther, Martin; Reformator; 1483-1546.  
- "Luther auf dem Reichstag zu Worms".        
(17/18. April 1521).                    
Gemaelde von Anton von Werner (1843-           
1915).                                  
Stuttgart, Staatsgalerie.               
                                        
                                        
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view from the mens' bathroom, if you can believe that.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/imrs-php.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>imrs.php</image:title><image:caption>Sign on the front door at a Catholic high school for boys in Little Rock, Arkansas.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-22T23:37:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/08/17/genius-or-toxic/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_0929.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0929</image:title><image:caption>Glasser's story and his ideas in English and in Japanese.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_top.jpg</image:loc><image:title>img_top</image:title><image:caption>This is where I will be landing in Japan - Kansai International Airport - an incredible airfield built in the middle of a bay on landfill.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/odkrajl.jpg</image:loc><image:title>odkrajl</image:title><image:caption>A mother taped this note to the refrigerator for her children.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-22T19:22:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/08/12/4-powerful-ideas-like-north-dakota-lightning/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_0912.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0912</image:title><image:caption>The Quality World picture activity.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_0907.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0907</image:title><image:caption>Working with a partner on the Basic Needs self-evaluation sheets.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_0905.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0905</image:title><image:caption>Dakota Adventist Academy in the early evening light.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/img_0903.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0903</image:title><image:caption>The administration and classroom area atrium. The entire school - classrooms, dorms, and gym - is under one roof.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/frame-12-08-2016-05-47-03.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Frame-12-08-2016-05-47-03</image:title><image:caption>Incredible explosions in the North Dakota sky!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/frame-12-08-2016-05-50-50.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Frame-12-08-2016-05-50-50</image:title><image:caption>More North Dakota lightning!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/08/lightning-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Lightning 1</image:title><image:caption>One of the lightning strikes during my North Dakota stay this week. It was totally dark, yet now it is almost like daytime, the flag flying proudly during the storm.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-09-01T02:49:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/31/you-can-steer-yourself-any-direction-you-choose/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/theodorseuss.jpg</image:loc><image:title>theodorseuss</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Seuss</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/img_0836.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0836</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-08-02T13:37:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/23/its-the-7-principles-of-the-thing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/img_0831.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0831</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/img_0830.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0830</image:title><image:caption>Like a number of other cultures, Japanese read from right to left, and they also read from top to bottom. Again, thank you Masaki Kakitani.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/img_0467.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0467</image:title><image:caption>The Japanese translation of Glasser's biography, Champion of Choice.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-27T15:24:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/21/flipping-the-script/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/uyibvdzzs2i73c7ztabt.png</image:loc><image:title>uyibvdzzs2i73c7ztabt</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-21T18:22:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/15/grades-and-high-school-credit-for-choice-theory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/13615406_1051051708276214_7448974254202279866_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>13615406_1051051708276214_7448974254202279866_n</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-27T01:30:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/04/how-can-i-be-wrong-when-i-think-im-right/</loc><lastmod>2016-07-14T23:13:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/07/02/what-makes-choice-theory-so-hard-to-do/</loc><lastmod>2019-09-14T18:29:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/06/17/the-quiet-crisis/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0298.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0298</image:title><image:caption>The classroom abuzz with students talking presenting their cultural heritage projects to each other.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0734.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0734</image:title><image:caption>The teachers in the class represent schools in Arizona, California, and Oregon.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0730.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0730</image:title><image:caption>The secondary reading class at work.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-21T04:00:50+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/06/11/takeaways-from-oregon/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0704.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0704</image:title><image:caption>In the quiet of Thursday morning before participants begin arriving.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/41lgmx-kqil-_sx295_bo1204203200_.jpg</image:loc><image:title>41lgMx-kqiL._SX295_BO1,204,203,200_</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0702.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0702</image:title><image:caption>The simple outline followed during the Parent Night orientation.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0707.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0707</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/img_0706.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0706</image:title><image:caption>Chris Sequeira, David Davies, and Sharon Cutz, role play a parent who overhears her teenager talk with friends about cheating.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-16T19:10:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/05/31/assume-that-people-do-their-best-is-that-possible/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/pp-jesusteacing_js_0057.jpg</image:loc><image:title>PP-JesusTeacing_JS_0057</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/0b9af2_71d900d4503831b9139d6de219c59447_1024.png</image:loc><image:title>0b9af2_71d900d4503831b9139d6de219c59447.png_1024</image:title><image:caption>A cover of the little book, Thoughts from the Mount of Blessing, which is based on what has come to be known as The Sermon on the Mount, found in Matthew 5-7.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-01T04:41:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/05/26/desks-as-cars-i-did-it/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/img_1936.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1936</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/img_1929.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1929</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/img_1933.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1933</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-07-06T04:57:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/05/23/changing-the-system-not-students/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/bill-1977.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, 1977</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser, 1977</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/bill-ventura-talk-2-11506.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, Ventura talk 2, 1,15,06</image:title><image:caption>Glasser during a talk in Ventura, CA.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-07-04T22:03:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/05/08/learning-to-choose/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/05/img_0546.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0546</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-25T02:41:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/04/23/tools-for-auditing-ourselves/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/img_05351.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0535</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/img_0535.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0535</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/img_1819.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1819</image:title><image:caption>Jim Roy and Dave 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Luthor</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/bvs_imax.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BvS_Imax</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/04/21-superman-batman-secondary-1-w1024.jpg</image:loc><image:title>21-superman-batman-secondary-1.w1024</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-08T18:13:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/02/21/when-little-decisions-explode-for-the-better/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/img_0397.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0397</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Tommie Smith, with fellow educators Dr. Bob Paulson on the left and Dr. Jim Roy on the right. (Feb 16, 2016)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/41_00007980luther-at-the-diet-of-worms.jpg</image:loc><image:title>41_00007980luther-at-the-diet-of-worms</image:title><image:caption>A painting (photographers were not allowed into the hall) of Luther declaring that "I cannot and will not recant."</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/luther-and-smith-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Luther and Smith 3</image:title><image:caption>Luther nailing 95 statements on the door of the church; Smith raising a gloved fist to the sky.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/luther-and-smith-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Luther and Smith 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-06T18:19:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/02/16/what-about-deliberate-disobedience/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/middle-school-students-450.jpg</image:loc><image:title>middle-school-students-450</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/img_1936.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1936</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/img_1457.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1457</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/img_3425.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_3425</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/img_0655.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0655</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/02/12644913_1065472940149976_1691557944195059702_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>12644913_1065472940149976_1691557944195059702_n</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-05-11T21:53:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/01/26/how-to-spot-a-controlling-person-even-if-its-you/</loc><lastmod>2016-04-15T20:13:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/01/24/how-to-parent-like-an-fbi-agent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0311.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0311</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0310.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0310</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-25T18:18:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/01/17/can-children-really-handle-choice-theory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_2007.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2007</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-06-18T03:07:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/01/10/the-ship-is-turning/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0294.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0294</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0293.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0293</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0289.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0289</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0285.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0285</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0286.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0286</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/1646820-former-shell-oil-chief-engineer-supertankers-could-save-the-gulf-so-why-wont-bp-listen-rotator.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1646820-former-shell-oil-chief-engineer-supertankers-could-save-the-gulf-so-why-wont-bp-listen-rotator</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/connection-brene-brown.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Connection - Brene Brown</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-14T23:47:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2016/01/02/a-quick-take-on-2015/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0104.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0104</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/screenshot-2016-01-02-10-42-06.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot 2016-01-02 10.42.06</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2016/01/img_0103.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0103</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-04-14T23:40:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/12/31/this-is-your-life/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/new-year-eve-2016.jpg</image:loc><image:title>New-Year-Eve-2016</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/never-give-up-7-638.jpg</image:loc><image:title>never-give-up-7-638</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/change-old-street-sign-bigst.jpg</image:loc><image:title>change-old-street-sign-bigst</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/switchfoot.jpg</image:loc><image:title>switchfoot</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-31T16:43:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/12/23/wisdom-from-christmass-past/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/star-of-bethlehem.jpg</image:loc><image:title>star-of-bethlehem</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/new-years-resolutions-204044-530-569_large.jpg</image:loc><image:title>new-years-resolutions-204044-530-569_large</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/s-l225.jpg</image:loc><image:title>s-l225</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-23T17:33:28+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/12/19/before-the-seminar-even-began/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/0bd6b3d20ffb7bf72d3f9b1106d62801-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0bd6b3d20ffb7bf72d3f9b1106d62801-2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/0bd6b3d20ffb7bf72d3f9b1106d62801.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0bd6b3d20ffb7bf72d3f9b1106d62801</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/images-6.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>images-6</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/smiling-face-to-face-300x200.jpg</image:loc><image:title>smiling-face-to-face-300x200</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/leave-695x361.jpg</image:loc><image:title>LEAVE-695x361</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-23T21:51:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/12/12/no-sense-of-agency/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/tpopcover.png</image:loc><image:title>TPoPcover</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/doing-school-1-196x300.jpg</image:loc><image:title>doing-school-1-196x300</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/1447942767197.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>1447942767197</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/12/atlantic.jpg</image:loc><image:title>atlantic</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-13T18:57:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/11/26/joy-for-thanks/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/10229-ea_joy_thrives-thankfulness-soil-design-copy-png.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>10229-ea_joy_thrives thankfulness soil design - Copy.png</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/6a00d83451cc5c69e2019b00bb31bf970b-550wi.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6a00d83451cc5c69e2019b00bb31bf970b-550wi</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/thankfulness-featured-wide.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Thankfulness-featured-wide</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/blog-stpp-500x280-v01.jpg</image:loc><image:title>blog-stpp-500x280-v01</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-12T21:51:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/11/21/a-i-vs-r-i/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/screenshot-2015-11-21-18-24-54.png</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot 2015-11-21 18.24.54</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/amazondrone.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Amazondrone</image:title><image:caption>Amazon drone prototype</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/googlecar.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Googlecar</image:title><image:caption>Google's self-driving car</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/wall-e.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wall-E</image:title><image:caption>Wall-E (2008)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/starwars.jpg</image:loc><image:title>StarWars</image:title><image:caption>Star Wars (1977)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/spaceodyssey.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SpaceOdyssey</image:title><image:caption>2001: A Space Odyssey (1968)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-15T23:02:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/11/07/young-future-teachers-get-it-when-it-comes-to-choice-theory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/img_0044.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0044</image:title><image:caption>A total behavior car made from a paper towel tube. (Created for one of the Ethical Dimensions assignments.)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/img_0045.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0045</image:title><image:caption>Each of the cards have responses on the other side. (A student creation from Ethical Dimensions.)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/img_2416.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2416</image:title><image:caption>Ethical Dimensions class in action.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-10T20:14:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/10/18/the-devil-made-me-do-it/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/41et01szt-l.jpg</image:loc><image:title>41et01Szt-L</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/youmakemehappy_tlccreations.png</image:loc><image:title>YouMakeMeHappy_TlcCreations</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/seeing-red.jpg</image:loc><image:title>seeing-red</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/995597_356x237.jpg</image:loc><image:title>995597_356x237</image:title><image:caption>Flip Wilson</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-15T23:36:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/10/03/feelings-are-weather/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/weather-alert10-14-14-300x110.jpg</image:loc><image:title>weather-alert10-14-14-300x110</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/hurricane_fran_sept_1996.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Hurricane_Fran_sept_1996</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/10/donaldmiller.jpg</image:loc><image:title>DonaldMiller</image:title><image:caption>Donald Miller</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-12-12T22:00:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/25/launching-better-versions-of-ourselves/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/fullsizerender.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FullSizeRender</image:title><image:caption>I walked on this trail to work yesterday, a picture I would include in my own Who Am I? collage.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/collage.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>collage</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/who-am-i.jpg</image:loc><image:title>who-am-i</image:title><image:caption>(Image by Karen Gately)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-25T20:53:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/19/we-will-get-through-this-together/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/we-will-get-through-this-together.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We Will Get Through This Together</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/relax-god-is-in-control.png</image:loc><image:title>relax-god-is-in-control</image:title><image:caption>Posters like these abound, but are they accurate?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_1639.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1639</image:title><image:caption>Middletown SDA School, taken before the fire. Things around it look different, but the school looks the same.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-11-25T20:52:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/15/the-valley-fire-and-fitting-your-life-into-a-car/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_0664.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0664</image:title><image:caption>The cars, if need be, waiting to be packed.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2330.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2330</image:title><image:caption>Me, Spencer, Evan McGraw, and Pastor Matthew Gamble, enjoying golf the day before the fire started. Spencer's house may have been harmed in the fire.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_0661.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0661</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_0662.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0662</image:title><image:caption>Pictures and important files being packed.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/rs16631_valley-fire-2-1920x1280.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fast-Moving Wildfire Brings Destruction To Lake County, CA</image:title><image:caption>A car burns in front of a burning home. An estimated 13,000 people have had to evacuate because of the Valley Fire.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/middletown-fire.jpg</image:loc><image:title>middletown-fire</image:title><image:caption>The picture that came to represent the devastation of Middletown during the first night of the fire.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-15T19:41:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/08/willie-ya-gotta-get-into-the-spiritual-thing/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/bill-and-nick-cummings-dec-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Nick Cummings, Dec 05</image:title><image:caption>Nick Cummings, another giant in the mental health field, and Bill Glasser. (circa 2005)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/bill-and-joe-also-1-yr-old.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Joe, also 1 yr old</image:title><image:caption>A young Bill Glasser and one year old, Joe, his first child. (circa 1952)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/bill-in-office-1-mar-07.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill in office 1, Mar, 07</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-15T19:38:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/04/20-dyer-quotes-to-help-you-become-a-better-you/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/go-for-it-today.jpg</image:loc><image:title>go-for-it-today</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/extra_mile.jpg</image:loc><image:title>extra_mile</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/dear-karma.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dear-karma</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/tumblr_mfkjzvgteg1qmdzcgo1_500.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tumblr_mfkjzvgTEG1qmdzcgo1_500</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-15T19:35:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/09/02/how-to-make-schools-better-for-kids/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/20131028hoschoollunchfood04-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20131028hoSchoolLunchFood04-2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/global20diversity.jpg</image:loc><image:title>global20diversity</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/a092096e994b24fd.jpg</image:loc><image:title>-a092096e994b24fd</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/homework.gif</image:loc><image:title>homework</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2312.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2312</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/img_2311.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2311</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/images.png</image:loc><image:title>images</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-01-04T21:58:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/08/22/what-if-everything-you-knew-about-disciplining-kids-was-wrong/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/img_0649.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0649</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/nuxienyv.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>NuXiENYv</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Ross Greene</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/self-control-dog.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Self-Control-dog</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/carol-dweck.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Carol-Dweck</image:title><image:caption>Carol Dweck, the author of Mindset, whose research is having a growing impact across the US and beyond.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/stockdiscipline101811.jpg</image:loc><image:title>StockDiscipline101811</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/blog-stpp-500x280-v01.jpg</image:loc><image:title>blog-stpp-500x280-v01</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/mother-jones_halfwidth_sidebars.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Mother-Jones_halfWidth_Sidebars</image:title><image:caption>Mary Harris Jones, who came to be known as Mother Jones, was an Irish-American trade union activist and a child labor opponent. The Mother Jones magazine was named after her and is know for its journalism to inform a more just and caring world.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-10-01T03:48:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/08/17/five-top-deathbed-regrets/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/3784c8f7-c78d-4a2c-ad10-0671a0ea44d8.jpg</image:loc><image:title>3784c8f7-c78d-4a2c-ad10-0671a0ea44d8</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/pinhopes-ws.jpg</image:loc><image:title>pinhopes-ws</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/sunset_pier_bridge_calm_water_lake_desktop_1920x1200_hd-wallpaper-48798.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sunset_pier_bridge_calm_water_lake_desktop_1920x1200_hd-wallpaper-48798</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/hands.png</image:loc><image:title>hands</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-25T19:18:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/08/11/what-would-you-fight-for/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/bigstock-what-is-my-purpose-9934247.jpg</image:loc><image:title>What Is My Purpose</image:title><image:caption>what is my purpose - spiritual and philosophical question in vintage wooden letterpress printing blocks isolated on white</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/lifepurpose.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lifepurpose</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/peta_1431555405749_18167083_ver1-0_640_480-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>peta_1431555405749_18167083_ver1.0_640_480-2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-25T19:15:38+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/08/07/50-years-and-the-price-of-true-success/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/bill-and-brad-jul-04.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Brad, Jul 04</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser and Brad Greene, 2004 (Jim Roy photo)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/bill-and-adrienne-nater-11506.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Adrienne Nater, 1,15,06</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser and Adrienne Nater meeting for the first time over 40 years after her leaving Oxnard High School.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/img_2265.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2265</image:title><image:caption>More Oxnard newspaper clippings from the spring of 1966.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/img_2264.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2264</image:title><image:caption>A newspaper clipping from the Oxnard Press Courier, April, 1966</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/08/untitled.png</image:loc><image:title>Untitled</image:title><image:caption>Adrienne Nater, girls vice-principal at Oxnard High School in 1965.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-25T19:12:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/07/16/want-better-answers-ask-better-questions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_0639.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0639</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_0640.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0640</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_0113.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0113</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/darth-vader-face.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>darth-vader-face</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/its-better-to-focus-on-strengths-even-when-dealing-with-weaknesses.jpg</image:loc><image:title>its-better-to-focus-on-strengths-even-when-dealing-with-weaknesses</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-23T23:47:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/07/12/elementary-students-prosthetic-hands-and-choice-theory/</loc><lastmod>2015-07-13T20:48:52+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/07/07/the-payback-pride-and-pleasure-of-choosing-to-be-miserable/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/sad-eyes-cute-puppy-dog-eyes-spaniel-pictures-pics-600x306.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sad-eyes-cute-puppy-dog-eyes-spaniel-pictures-pics-600x306</image:title><image:caption>Woe is me and don't try to talk me out of it.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/sad-big-ss-225x300.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sad-big-SS-225x300</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/frustrated-dog.jpg</image:loc><image:title>frustrated dog</image:title><image:caption>"So let me get this straight. You're saying I choose to be unhappy?"</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-08-01T17:22:49+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/07/05/religion-and-the-only-person-i-can-control/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/god-loves-the-broken.jpg</image:loc><image:title>God-loves-the-broken</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/purpose-of-religion.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Purpose of religion</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2017-08-08T06:07:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/07/03/me-management/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_2151.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2151</image:title><image:caption>It's even hard to erase the white board after The Better Plan 2 class.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_2146.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2146</image:title><image:caption>Classroom clean-up almost done following The Better Plan 2 class. It has been a very meaningful week.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/img_2143.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2143</image:title><image:caption>A role play during The Better Plan 2 class, which just ended yesterday.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-13T20:30:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/06/26/door-mats-and-place-mats-pretty-cool/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2131.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2131</image:title><image:caption>Tom Amato, director of the Napa Valley Youth Advocacy Center, during the Better Plan class.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2127.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2127</image:title><image:caption>One of the book racks available to students all throughout the week.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2125.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2125</image:title><image:caption>These could be framed. </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2124.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2124</image:title><image:caption>So much good stuff here!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2123.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2123</image:title><image:caption>Learning place mats.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2126.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2126</image:title><image:caption>Can a classroom get better than this?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2122.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2122</image:title><image:caption>A quiet classroom in the early morn. Soon the buzz of learning will make its wonderful presence felt.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2136.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2136</image:title><image:caption>The Better Plan 1 class, summer, PUC, 2015</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/hi_im_mat_door_mat_3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hi_im_mat_door_mat_3</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-13T20:27:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/06/20/the-last-soul-shapers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_0628.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0628</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_0630.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0630</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/dolphin.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dolphin</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_0626.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0626</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_0616.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0616</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_1223.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1223</image:title><image:caption>Last summer's Soul Shapers 1 class. (2014)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-23T12:08:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/06/13/being-what-we-want-our-students-to-become/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/be-the-change-you-want.jpg</image:loc><image:title>be-the-change-you-want</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/work-1578969-5-flat550x550075f-self-reflection.jpg</image:loc><image:title>work-1578969-5-flat550x550075f-self-reflection</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2104.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2104</image:title><image:caption>Chris Sequeira (on the right) and me in his classroom after the in-service was over, and just before we bid farewell to each other - him to see his daughter graduate from Walla Walla and me to head to PUC for graduation weekend.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2107.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2107</image:title><image:caption>The sun was in my eyes. Not all pictures can be great pictures. The important thing is I got a shot in front of a place that's important to me.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-14T04:45:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/06/04/the-notebook/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/485906502_640.jpg</image:loc><image:title>485906502_640</image:title><image:caption>A group of Pathfinders in uniform.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/800px-bicycle_diagram-en-svg.png</image:loc><image:title>800px-Bicycle_diagram-en.svg</image:title><image:caption>The parts of the bicycle that need to be learned for the Cycling honor.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2061.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2061</image:title><image:caption>I think these badges represent Camp Crafts, Cats, Intermediate Swimming, Mammals, and Amphibians.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/img_2060.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2060</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/screen-shot-2014-08-16-at-11-03-50-am.png</image:loc><image:title>Screen Shot 2014-08-16 at 11.03.50 AM</image:title><image:caption>Every five years almost 50,000 Pathfinders from around the world converge on Oshkosh, Wisconsin, for an incredible conference.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/06/migcfk4jn5vmtbzde5w1zsju9mi5bzwcalax_riwq8q.png</image:loc><image:title>MiGcfk4JN5VMTbzdE5W1ZsjU9Mi5bZWcalaX_RIWq8Q</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-21T06:27:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/05/27/27-intrinsic-motivation-ideas/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/polls_scolding_0345_424529_poll.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>polls_scolding_0345_424529_poll</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/instrinsic-motivation.jpg</image:loc><image:title>instrinsic-motivation</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-28T15:23:24+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/05/23/you-are-responsible-period-is-that-choice-theoryesque/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/20100916-195421-pic-964184612_s640x376.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20100916-195421-pic-964184612_s640x376</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/wayne-dyer.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Wayne-Dyer</image:title><image:caption>Dr. 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Dyer</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/img_0604.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0604</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-24T17:15:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/05/16/the-fox-and-the-chicken-coop/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/9781137506948.jpg</image:loc><image:title>9781137506948</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/img_2007.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2007</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/fox-guarding-the-hen-house.jpg</image:loc><image:title>fox-guarding-the-hen-house</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/dsm_3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dsm_3</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/rwhitaker.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Robert Whitaker</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/madcoverbig.jpg</image:loc><image:title>madcoverbig</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-21T06:21:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/05/05/the-wrecking-crew/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/20110922_wreckingcrew_beachboys_33.jpg</image:loc><image:title>20110922_wreckingcrew_beachboys_33</image:title><image:caption>The Beach Boys</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/wrecking-crew-tommy-tedesco-carol-kaye-630-80.jpg</image:loc><image:title>wrecking-crew-tommy-tedesco-carol-kaye-630-80</image:title><image:caption>Tommy Tedesco, probably the best guitarist you never heard of.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/the-wrecking-crew-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>The-Wrecking-Crew-1</image:title><image:caption>Carol Kaye, bass player for The Wrecking Crew, and one of the best bass players of all time.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/wreckingcrewlogo-300dpi.jpg</image:loc><image:title>WreckingCrewLogo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-07-23T23:44:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/04/23/10-minutes-to-live/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_2022.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_2022</image:title><image:caption>Grainger Hall (men's dorm), Pacific Union College</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/gwh-02919-detail.jpg</image:loc><image:title>gwh-02919-detail</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/x12trgnnagnn_large.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>x12TRGnnagNN_large</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/miller-whispers-to-ryan_thumb11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>miller-whispers-to-ryan_thumb11</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-06-21T06:09:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/04/10/lighthouse-then-lighthouse-now/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/bill-and-brad-jul-04.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Brad, Jul 04</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser and Brad Greene (2005)
Photo by Jim Roy</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_0091.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0091</image:title><image:caption>Jim and Tom</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_0094.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0094</image:title><image:caption>A student assembly focusing on making plans for a successful future.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_0097.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0097</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_0096.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0096</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-15T21:49:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/22/toronto-keynote/</loc><lastmod>2015-04-07T23:00:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/04/03/some-things-hugs-cant-fix/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/04/img_0576.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0576</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-08T22:09:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/26/45-absolutely-great-questions/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/18750_1201474921545_1313932_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>18750_1201474921545_1313932_n</image:title><image:caption>Speaking of good friends and coffee, Jim Roy and Tom Amato begin the day early at the Roasting Company.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/help.png</image:loc><image:title>help</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-31T05:17:45+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/27/heart-work/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/jesus_and_childfen.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Jesus_and_Childfen</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_0087.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0087</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/6865497-sunrise-pictures.jpg</image:loc><image:title>6865497-sunrise-pictures</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-01T03:36:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/24/is-there-any-choice-theory-in-being-a-tiger-parent/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/10306089_10155373068570173_2344471942225386592_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>10306089_10155373068570173_2344471942225386592_n</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-01T03:34:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/22/one-of-my-favorite-bible-class-moments-happened-when/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_0085.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0085</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_0083.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0083</image:title><image:caption>A bulletin in our Education Department at PUC with pictures of the teaching credential candidates in our program.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-04-08T04:05:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/20/chris-borland-and-the-choice/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/hi-res-7a5cf10d541befcea2d7e0ca29bcbd72_crop_north.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hi-res-7a5cf10d541befcea2d7e0ca29bcbd72_crop_north</image:title><image:caption>Borland during team activities without helmet and pads.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/borland-300x203.jpg</image:loc><image:title>borland-300x203</image:title><image:caption>Borland, focused and ready to attack just prior to the snap.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/nfl_g_borland01jr_c_300x200.jpg</image:loc><image:title>nfl_g_borland01jr_C_300x200</image:title><image:caption>Chris Borland, taken during the Nov. 27, 2014, game against the Seattle Seahawks.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-22T04:49:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/17/melting-self-justification/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_0082.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0082</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/mirror.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mirror</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/mirrors.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mirrors</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/img_0546.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0546</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-17T18:22:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/12/blaming-might-be-funny-if-it-wasnt-so-darned-destructive/</loc><lastmod>2015-09-01T03:38:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/03/07/failing-forward/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/160939688.jpg</image:loc><image:title>160939688</image:title><image:caption>Photo credit: reflectionsbyken.files.wordpress.com</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/03/2403249501_96ec1527fc_o-1024x695.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2403249501_96ec1527fc_o-1024x695</image:title><image:caption>Photo credit: http://flic.kr/p/4Enhme</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-13T01:39:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/02/28/jfk/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/px-65-105-179.jpg</image:loc><image:title>px 65-105-179</image:title><image:caption>John F. Kennedy (1959)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_0080.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0080</image:title><image:caption>Taken from the sidewalk next to the grassy knoll; Gale and Dan in the foreground.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_0078.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0078</image:title><image:caption>The group that went to the Sixth Floor Museum - me; Gale Crosby, Supt. of Education, Oregon Conference; Randy Thornton, Principal, Milo Academy; and Dan Nicola, Principal, Portland Adventist Academy.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/img_0081.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0081</image:title><image:caption>Taken from the exact spot on which JFK was fatally hit, looking back up to the sixth floor window from which the shot was fired.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-07T17:24:12+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/02/25/a-ghost-a-lizard-and-may-i-kill-it/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/sunrise-morning-mist-wearandcheer-com_-1024x576.jpg</image:loc><image:title>sunrise-morning-mist-wearandcheer.com_-1024x576</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/555bc1b9fe306ca89a69d98b009f2774.png</image:loc><image:title>555bc1b9fe306ca89a69d98b009f2774</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/the_great_divorce_c_s_lewis_slice.jpg</image:loc><image:title>the_great_divorce_c_s_lewis</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/great-divorce-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>great divorce 2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-26T02:48:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/02/19/being-the-best-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/il_340x270-186178566.jpg</image:loc><image:title>il_340x270.186178566</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/have-an-expectant-attitude-600x300.png</image:loc><image:title>have-an-expectant-attitude-600x300</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/choice-png.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>choice.png</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-02-22T01:31:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/02/15/asdasa-and-leading-the-quality-school/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/bill-1990.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, 1990</image:title><image:caption>Dr. William Glasser (1990)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/4279721_orig.png</image:loc><image:title>4279721_orig</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/homepage-banner-asdasa-ad2a9e499531690678f59f3ac976a033.jpg</image:loc><image:title>homepage-banner-ASDASA-ad2a9e499531690678f59f3ac976a033</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/screenshot-2015-02-13-17-19-30.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot 2015-02-13 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pictures 015</image:title><image:caption>Glasser writing at home. (Photo by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-12T22:23:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/01/19/ill-have-some-grateful/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/grateful1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Grateful</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/grateful.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Grateful</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/2015_toyota_prius_angularfront.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2015_toyota_prius_angularfront</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/martin-luther-king-jr-quotes-1008-640x433.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Martin-Luther-King-Jr-Quotes-1008-640x433</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-13T01:49:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/12/28/a-violin-a-music-teacher-and-punished-by-rewards/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/bribery1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bribery1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-16T20:06:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/01/15/serial/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/your-choices.jpg</image:loc><image:title>your-choices</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/o-cristina-gutierrez-570.jpg</image:loc><image:title>o-CRISTINA-GUTIERREZ-570</image:title><image:caption>Cristina Guttierrez, defense attorney for Adnan Syed. She was disbarred a year after the trial.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/images1.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>images</image:title><image:caption>Sarah Koenig, narrator and executive producer of the Serial podcast.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/images.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>images</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/article-lead-narrow64546884129w60image-related-articleleadnarrow-353x0-12fgp0-png1420072563784-300x0.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Article Lead - narrow64546884129w60image.related.articleLeadNarrow.353x0.12fgp0.png1420072563784.jpg-300x0</image:title><image:caption>Adnan Syed as a high school senior.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/serial-logo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>serial-logo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-16T05:21:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/01/09/freedom-calls-us-to-a-higher-standard/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/decorator-accessories-m_f-welcome-sign-17394001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>decorator-accessories-m_f-welcome-sign-17394001</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/earth-from-space-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>earth-from-space-1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/high-jump-300x200.jpg</image:loc><image:title>high-jump-300x200</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-30T17:43:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/01/05/the-wild-truth/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/b3affegcqaaqhrs-jpg-large.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>B3AFFeGCQAAQhRs.jpg-large</image:title><image:caption>Jon Krakauer and Carine McCandless</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/carine-mccandles-800.jpg</image:loc><image:title>carine-mccandles-800</image:title><image:caption>Carine, Billie, Walt, and Chris McCandless</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/mccandlesschristine.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mccandlessChristine</image:title><image:caption>         Carine McCandless</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/9780062325143_custom-36ca5232e1922fbc7dc1ecdce267c506fd680e75-s99-c85.jpg</image:loc><image:title>9780062325143_custom-36ca5232e1922fbc7dc1ecdce267c506fd680e75-s99-c85</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-12T22:10:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2015/01/01/so-long-2014-hello-2015/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/nye2015-300x202.jpg</image:loc><image:title>NYE2015-300x202</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-13T01:47:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/12/16/glasser-biography-is-published-kind-of/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/img_0778.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0778</image:title><image:caption>Jim Roy and Carleen Glasser with the first edition of Bill's biography. Taken at the Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/img_0762.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0762</image:title><image:caption>Three of those who attended the recent Choice Theory Study Group: Sonya Reaves, teaching principal at Oakhurst SDA Elementary near Yosemite; Joel Steffan, Gr. 5/6 at Foothills Adventist Elementary School in St. Helena, CA; and George Barcenas, Physical Education and Spanish teacher at Redwood Adventist Academy in Santa Rosa, CA.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-29T06:03:14+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/12/26/the-holidays-require-all-of-our-choice-theory-superpowers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/happy-holidays-banner-bluehappy-holiday-banner-quotes-10t9k2jh.jpg</image:loc><image:title>happy-holidays-banner-bluehappy-holiday-banner-quotes-10t9k2jh</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/cv13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cv13</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/xinstallation-landing-page-banner-pagespeed-ic-xzuai7lhhy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>xinstallation-landing-page-banner.jpg.pagespeed.ic.xZuai7LHhy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/162.jpg</image:loc><image:title>162</image:title><image:caption>The S actually stands for Self-Control.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-26T21:45:27+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/12/23/good-bye-for-now-kalispell/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Jordan, Katy, Maggie, and Jim.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/photo-4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 4</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/winter_on_st_mary_lake.jpg</image:loc><image:title>winter_on_st_mary_lake</image:title><image:caption>Had it been a clear, sunny day, apparently we would have had views like this.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/mt_27756.gif</image:loc><image:title>MT_27756</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-28T22:02:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/12/20/into-the-wild/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/img_0515.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0515</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/th.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>th</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/doc5241f4df7fef54026821401.jpg</image:loc><image:title>doc5241f4df7fef54026821401</image:title><image:caption>Chris's parents, Walt and Billie McCandless.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/220px-chris_mccandless.png</image:loc><image:title>220px-Chris_McCandless</image:title><image:caption>Chris, in front of the bus that was his Alaska home until the end.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/chris-mccandless-in-high-school.png</image:loc><image:title>Chris McCandless in High School</image:title><image:caption>Chris Mccandleuss high school yearbook picture</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/into_the_wild_book_cover.png</image:loc><image:title>Into_the_Wild_(book)_cover</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-29T20:44:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/12/18/in-spite-of-your-fear-or-because-of-your-fear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/p1000220.jpg</image:loc><image:title>p1000220</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/12/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-31T03:53:32+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/25/from-the-mouths-of-kids-thanksgiving-and-choice-theory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/53964070.jpg</image:loc><image:title>53964070</image:title><image:caption>If you remember this popular daytime TV show you'd be .  .  . as old as me.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-26T20:02:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/22/8-dos-and-donts-choice-theory-taught-me-about-working-with-parents/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/timthumb-php.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>timthumb.php</image:title><image:caption>Remarkably, not only are BOTH parents present at this conference, but they are holding hands and smiling. Oh, wait, this is a picture of realtor telling clients their house has just sold for more than the asking price.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-25T00:51:15+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/19/stamina/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 3</image:title><image:caption>Student books waiting to be read.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/reading-data.jpg</image:loc><image:title>reading data</image:title><image:caption>The remarkable reading data chart.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title><image:caption>Procedural steps for reading time for both the students and the teacher.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-13T07:41:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/13/200-top-psychologists-where-is-glasser-on-the-list/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/220px-carlrogers.jpg</image:loc><image:title>220px-Carlrogers</image:title><image:caption>Carl Rogers</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/abandura.gif</image:loc><image:title>ABandura</image:title><image:caption>Albert Bandura</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-18T23:06:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/09/a-spine-surgeons-road-map-out-of-chronic-pain/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/back-in-control-front.jpg</image:loc><image:title>back-in-control-front</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-10T22:45:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/07/taking-the-ugh-out-of-working-with-parents/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/finger_pointing.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Finger_pointing</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/alyson-blog-teacher-300x297.jpg</image:loc><image:title>ALYSON-BLOG-TEACHER-300x297</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Books have been written on the topic, even though NOT all parents are difficult.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/erasmus_rotterdam.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Erasmus_rotterdam</image:title><image:caption>Erasmus. He looks a bit smug to me.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-16T21:08:36+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/11/05/help-from-the-iceberg/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/51yq0hl1nel-_bo2204203200_pisitb-sticker-v3-bigtopright0-55_sx278_sy278_pikin4bottomright122_aa300_sh20_ou01_.jpg</image:loc><image:title>51Yq0hL1NEL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-v3-big,TopRight,0,-55_SX278_SY278_PIkin4,BottomRight,1,22_AA300_SH20_OU01_</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/brain-scan.jpg</image:loc><image:title>brain-scan</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/screenshot-2014-11-05-21-11-15.png</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot 2014-11-05 21.11.15</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/iceberg.jpg</image:loc><image:title>iceberg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/images.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>images</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/11/iceberg2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>iceberg2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-06T05:29:47+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/31/good-news-about-guilt/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/ventura-school-for-girls-the-old-school.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Ventura School for Girls - The Old School</image:title><image:caption>The Ventura School for Girls, before it was moved to Ojai.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/dreamstime_132351051-300x200.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dreamstime_132351051-300x200</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/shame3-720x380.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Shame3-720x380</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-01T18:24:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/24/compassion-and-slim-choices/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo5.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo-11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-06T20:06:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/18/an-unpublished-glasser-letter-to-the-editor/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/bhs_2014-01-18_20-33.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bhs_2014-01-18_20-33</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/americanphilosophers10.jpg</image:loc><image:title>americanphilosophers10</image:title><image:caption>William James (1842-1910); some saw him as the "father of American psychology."</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-13T01:44:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/15/the-greatest-scam-of-all-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/678610.jpg</image:loc><image:title>678610</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-03-13T01:42:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/11/god-as-coercer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/puppet-strings-image.png</image:loc><image:title>puppet-strings-image</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/elijah_the_prophet__image_1_sjpg2104.jpg</image:loc><image:title>elijah_the_prophet__image_1_sjpg2104</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/angry-god-13106479.jpg</image:loc><image:title>angry-god-13106479</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/belief-in-an-angry-god-now-linked-to-mental-illness-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Belief-in-an-Angry-God-Now-Linked-to-Mental-Illness-2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/angrygod1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>AngryGod1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-09-01T03:36:40+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/10/05/i-dont-feel-close-to-god-so-i-must-not-be/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/10/jesus-heals-at-bethesda-biblevideo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jesus-heals-at-bethesda-biblevideo</image:title><image:caption>He willed to walk, and he did walk.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-10-08T04:46:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/28/so-you-wanna-be-a-pioneer/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Me getting outfitted with new glasses.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/800px-cornea_transplant.jpg</image:loc><image:title>800px-Cornea_Transplant</image:title><image:caption>Can you see the two small stitches holding things in place?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bill-psychotherapy-conf-dec-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, Psychotherapy Conf, Dec 05</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser presenting at the Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference, 2005 (Photo by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/11bd51fae96102f8dd6b756aa487f670.jpg</image:loc><image:title>11bd51fae96102f8dd6b756aa487f670</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/v53302zxaqx.jpg</image:loc><image:title>v53302zxaqx</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Leonard Bailey and his wife, Nancy, giving the opening colloquy talk at PUC, 2014.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-26T19:01:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/21/misdirected-zeal-and-why-we-keep-trying-or-quit/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/4727525216_ebaa6544f9_z.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Landscape</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/fox-708.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Fox 708</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2015-01-26T18:49:06+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/18/an-interview-with-jim-roy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1413.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1413</image:title><image:caption>Chris Kinney and Jim Roy</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-18T18:45:25+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/16/exciting-meticulous-enlightening-must-read/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bill-and-joe-also-1-yr-old.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Joe, also 1 yr old</image:title><image:caption>Glasser and one year old son, Joe. (1952)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/glasser-1981.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Glasser, 1981</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser (1981)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/gladding-at-desk-2009.jpg</image:loc><image:title>gladding-at-desk.2009</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Sam Gladding</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2016-09-19T18:24:37+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/13/two-lawnmowers/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1409.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1409</image:title><image:caption>Me and Chris Kinney.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1414.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1414</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1415.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1415</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1406.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1406</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1407.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1407</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-03T20:50:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/10/mistakes-mischief-and-mayhem/</loc><lastmod>2014-09-10T23:15:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/07/off-and-running-with-glasser-and-wong/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/screenshot-2014-09-06-19-44-32.png</image:loc><image:title>Screenshot 2014-09-06 19.44.32</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/baby-billy1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>baby Billy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/baby-billy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>baby Billy</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/bill-ventura-talk-2-11506.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, Ventura talk 2, 1,15,06</image:title><image:caption>Bill giving a talk in Ventura, CA (2006) </image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/056.jpg</image:loc><image:title>056</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/img_1390-e1410056266176.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1390</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-08T22:51:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/06/essential-elements-in-a-classroom-management-class/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/5995852_orig.png</image:loc><image:title>_5995852_orig</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-11-19T21:20:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/03/well-this-is-frustrating-in-kind-of-a-good-way/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/jpbook1-popup.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jpbook1-popup</image:title><image:caption>Dr. Allen Frances</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/02book1-popup.jpg</image:loc><image:title>02BOOK1-popup</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-07T21:02:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/09/01/25-ways-to-ask-your-kids-how-was-school-today/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/2014-08-29-25ways-890x395_c.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2014-08-29-25ways-890x395_c</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-06T05:55:29+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/26/glasser-biography-now-available-as-ebook/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>The screen of my iPad, which now includes the new eBook version of Champion of Choice.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/buiyad1ccaaskui.jpg</image:loc><image:title>BuiYAd1CcAAskUI</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-05T19:55:16+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/23/you-are-missed-bill-glasser/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/we-miss-you-bill-3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We Miss You, Bill 3</image:title><image:caption>Glasser's writing space, minus his computer, where so much of his creativity was put to the page. (Photo by Jim Roy.)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/bill-and-ellis-dec-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Ellis, Dec 05</image:title><image:caption>Glasser and Albert Ellis, 2005. (Photo by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/we-miss-you-bill-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We Miss You, Bill 2</image:title><image:caption>Relaxing in the living room with the TV on, although still ready to talk about life. (Photo by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/we-miss-you-bill-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>We Miss You, Bill 1</image:title><image:caption>Bill Glasser, at home, ready to visit about whatever is on your mind.  (Photo by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-05T19:57:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/20/5-must-haves-to-start-the-school-year/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/9780976423331_p0_v3_s260x420.jpg</image:loc><image:title>9780976423331_p0_v3_s260x420</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/abc.jpg</image:loc><image:title>abc</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/quotes-about-moving-on-0234-236-quotes-about-children-16.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Quotes About Moving On 0234-236 (Quotes About Children) (16)</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-06T06:15:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/15/6-rules-for-happiness-and-the-environment/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/lets_create_good_enviornment_for_all.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lets_create_good_enviornment_for_all</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/u8toqit.jpg</image:loc><image:title>u8toqit</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2016-10-19T00:37:43+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/13/solitary-pleasure-and-mental-health/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/21011704-hand-cutting-wood-with-hand-saw.jpg</image:loc><image:title>21011704-hand-cutting-wood-with-hand-saw</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/16best_span-tmagarticle.jpg</image:loc><image:title>16BEST_SPAN-tmagArticle</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/mm_boardwalk_solitary_man_sunshine_max_bolotov-585x387.jpg</image:loc><image:title>mm_boardwalk_solitary_man_sunshine_max_bolotov-585x387</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/12/scan0001-e1355699574473.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Soul Shapers cover</image:title><image:caption>This original cover may be a thing of the past. We'll see what the Pacific Press does with the book.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-06T06:24:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/10/teaching-the-quality-world/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/ourqualityworld.png</image:loc><image:title>ourqualityworld</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/basicneeds.png</image:loc><image:title>basicneeds</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/adolescentqw2.png</image:loc><image:title>adolescentqw2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/adolescentqw.png</image:loc><image:title>adolescentqw</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/qualityworldstages.png</image:loc><image:title>qualityworldstages</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/realworlddiagram.png</image:loc><image:title>realworlddiagram</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/tables.jpg</image:loc><image:title>tables</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/elephant.jpg</image:loc><image:title>elephant</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2025-01-01T01:30:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/05/no-word-for-accountability-are-you-kidding-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/accountabilityimage.png</image:loc><image:title>accountabilityimage</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/flag_of_finland-svg.png</image:loc><image:title>Flag_of_Finland.svg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/finland.jpg</image:loc><image:title>finland</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-08T22:26:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/08/01/love-and-belonging-same-side-of-the-coin/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/img_1271.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1271</image:title><image:caption>The book that connects the dots of William Glasser's ideas and his career.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/1cor13day20verse7.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1Cor13Day20Verse7</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/belong-and-connection.jpg</image:loc><image:title>belong-and-connection</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/confused.jpg</image:loc><image:title>confused</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-07T02:05:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/30/relevance-captured-in-a-simple-graphic/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1330.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1330</image:title><image:caption>The stairs leading to the front door of the Education building. I'm not sure which class in which this idea was used, but I like it!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1332.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1332</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-09T17:08:51+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/25/dangit-spread-the-message/</loc><lastmod>2014-08-01T15:48:48+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/24/questions-for-bill/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1287.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1287</image:title><image:caption>Carleen Glasser speaking at the Toronto conference.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_0489.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0489</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-25T14:17:26+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/19/in-a-nutshell/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/new-technology-high-school-logo.png</image:loc><image:title>New-Technology-High-School-logo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/fe_pr_121010_crossroads425x283.jpg</image:loc><image:title>FE_PR_121010_crossroads425x283</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/inbound-marketing-in-a-nutshell.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Inbound-Marketing-in-a-Nutshell</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-10T16:54:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/16/yoda-on-a-cold-dark-football-field/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/25.jpg</image:loc><image:title>25</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1316.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1316</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1319.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1319</image:title><image:caption>Jim and Yoda. I'm wiser; I don't think Yoda can get any wiser, can he?</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1315.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1315</image:title><image:caption>Jim, Maggie, Anne, and Kurt</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/sa-sponsor-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>SA Sponsor 001</image:title><image:caption>Me when I first began teaching at Kingsway, in my referee jacket. Ralph Jurianz is on the right. We were student association sponsors that year.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1309.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1309</image:title><image:caption>Me and the gym, together again after 34 years.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1307.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1307</image:title><image:caption>The old Kingsway gym.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-17T16:05:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/14/reflections-on-toronto/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/izmqwkcgwbzy.jpg</image:loc><image:title>izmqWKcGwBzY</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1306.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1306</image:title><image:caption>The board members of William Glasser International.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_1281.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1281</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-16T04:51:20+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/11/a-selfie-from-toronto/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/photo3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Ahh .  .  . Toronto. What a great city!</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/51t5bnhzusl-_aa160_.jpg</image:loc><image:title>51t5bNhzuSL._AA160_</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Carleen Glasser, Maggie Roy, and Sandie Wubbolding.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Hello from everyone at the 2nd International Glasser Conference in Toronto!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-12T11:29:17+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/08/a-picture-is-worth-a-thousand-discussions/</loc><lastmod>2014-07-12T01:22:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/05/fascinating-data-confirms-choice-theory/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/0706gray-master675.jpg</image:loc><image:title>0706GRAY-master675</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-07T06:35:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/03/5-reasons-choice-theory-works-100-of-the-time/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_0036.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0036</image:title><image:caption>Waiting to be called in. There would soon be a lot more trucks here.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_0035.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0035</image:title><image:caption>From the old Pope Valley gas station at the bottom of the hill.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/img_0032.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0032</image:title><image:caption>From the top of Pope Valley Road.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>The view when I walked out of the Education building.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-06T01:20:01+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/07/01/its-ok-as-long-as-i-am-not-harming-others-right/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/self_medicate_by_placebofx-d6q0cu7.png</image:loc><image:title>self_medicate_by_placebofx-d6q0cu7</image:title><image:caption>This is such a dark picture, yet it captures a process in which we might find ourselves.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/07/slide-001.jpg</image:loc><image:title>slide.001</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-07-03T22:49:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/06/29/hard-to-move-the-furniture-back-to-where-it-was/</loc><lastmod>2014-07-03T01:46:22+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/06/27/honey-this-is-getting-out-of-control/</loc><lastmod>2014-06-30T02:53:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/06/25/three-types-of-people-awesome-dangerous-and-run/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_1229.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1229</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/three-types-of-people.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Three Types of People</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-27T18:30:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/06/21/the-drive-home/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_1219.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1219</image:title><image:caption>Chart presentations: A creative role play format leads to a better understanding of total behavior.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_1214.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1214</image:title><image:caption>Class members demonstrate how puppets can be used to help students learn about choice theory and process their behavioral choices. (From the summer class at PUC, 2014)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_1213.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1213</image:title><image:caption>Chart presentations: A teacher-created small booklet could by used by students to identify their basic needs.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/img_1222.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1222</image:title><image:caption>Soul Shapers 1 class, summer of 2014; a talented group of teachers who taught me a 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piece of cake from the Social Work consecration reception at PUC yesterday.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-27T08:40:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/06/04/cancer-and-the-tyranny-of-positivity/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/tirengel-at-nyc.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>Tirengel at NyC</image:title><image:caption>Jeff Tirengel with Bill and Carleen at the International Glasser Conference in New York City, 2006.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-04T14:59:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/05/31/cancer-and-how-should-i-live-my-life-now/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/tirengel-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Tirengel-2</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-06-03T20:31:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/05/24/glasser-and-jordan/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Jim and 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at work, 8-25-04</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser at work in his home office. (2004) Jim Roy photo.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-16T15:50:08+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/24/the-stowaway/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/correct-basic-needs.png</image:loc><image:title>Correct Basic Needs</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/basic-needs.png</image:loc><image:title>Basic Needs</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/dnews-files-2014-04-how-did-hawaii-stowaway-survive-in-jets-wheel-well-670x440-jpg.jpg</image:loc><image:title>dnews-files-2014-04-how-did-hawaii-stowaway-survive-in-jets-wheel-well-670x440-jpg</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/hawaiianairlinesap.jpg</image:loc><image:title>hawaiianairlinesAP</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/1398087599000-ap-aptopix-teen-stowaway-hawaii.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1398087599000-AP-APTOPIX-Teen-Stowaway-Hawaii</image:title><image:caption>A 15 year old boy is loaded into an ambulance at the Maui airport.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-28T17:09:46+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/22/the-simon-cowell-in-each-of-us/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/musical-chairs.jpg</image:loc><image:title>musical-chairs</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/american-idol-judges-season-13.jpg</image:loc><image:title>American-Idol-Judges-Season-13</image:title><image:caption>This year's American Idol judges - Harry Connick, Jr., Jennifer Lopez, and Keith Urban.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/t2ec16hee9s2uiwprbro6o2dg60_35.jpg</image:loc><image:title>$T2eC16h,!)EE9s2uiwPRBR)O6o2dG!~~60_35</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-15T20:54:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/16/watches-in-their-crowns/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/lowe-400x249.jpg</image:loc><image:title>lowe-400x249</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/jewelry-return.jpg</image:loc><image:title>jewelry-return</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-18T13:34:07+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/11/hot-off-the-press-really/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/bill-and-bob-wubbolding-dec-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill and Bob Wubbolding, Dec 05</image:title><image:caption>Bob Wubbolding, who wrote the Foreword for the biography, and Glasser at the Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference in 2005.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-16T04:57:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/08/linda-gone-too-soon/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/linda-harshman-and-jim.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA</image:title><image:caption>Linda Harshman and Jim Roy, both attending the 2005 Glasser International Conference in Dublin, Ireland.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2015-05-21T21:13:03+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/04/05/listening-to-understand/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/23654_1282179059098_6761627_n.jpg</image:loc><image:title>23654_1282179059098_6761627_n</image:title><image:caption>We may not have ears as big as Abby's, but we still concentrate on really listening to the person talking to us.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-05-16T05:01:35+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/28/the-best-version-of-themselves/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 2</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo 1</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo4.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Graduation Picture</image:title><image:caption>Glasser received an honorary doctorate at the same time I received my Ed.D.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-06T06:08:56+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/22/glasser-biography-now-available/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo3.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-06T05:58:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/19/unpublished-glasser-article/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/glasser-1981.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Glasser, 1981</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser (1981)</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/bill-1977.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, 1977</image:title><image:caption>Bill Glasser 1977 (contributed by Jim Roy)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-05T19:25:33+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/18/sticking-it-in-their-ear/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/img_1020.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1020</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title><image:caption>Newspaper article from 1962</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-19T00:54:21+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/14/the-glasser-four/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/bill-ventura-talk-11506.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill, Ventura talk, 1,15,06</image:title><image:caption>Glasser on a stool, his water beside him, giving a talk in Ventura (c. 2006)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-09-05T19:20:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/11/the-importance-of-the-a-in-dream/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/photo.jpg</image:loc><image:title>photo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-13T20:20:31+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/03/09/great-dream-acronym-for-happiness/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/03/happiness.jpg</image:loc><image:title>happiness</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-09T18:31:57+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/27/are-we-biologically-built-to-focus-on-the-negative/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/2324612788_379faaa22e-300x197.jpg</image:loc><image:title>2324612788_379faaa22e-300x197</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-03-07T03:28:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/25/colorado-school-replaces-punishment-with-conversation/</loc><lastmod>2014-02-26T01:41:53+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/23/believing-in-students-the-power-to-make-a-difference/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/curwin-belief-in-students.jpg</image:loc><image:title>curwin-belief-in-students</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-16T21:08:05+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/21/used-books/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_0939.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0939</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_0947.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0947</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_0942.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0942</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/l.jpg</image:loc><image:title>l</image:title><image:caption>Used bookstore in San Luis Obispo, CA.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-04-16T20:23:42+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/20/grief-and-choice/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/569.jpg</image:loc><image:title>OLYMPUS DIGITAL 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PP redo</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-17T02:55:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/10/quitting-smoking-and-the-nuclear-strategy/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/images.jpeg</image:loc><image:title>images</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/savingmoney.jpg</image:loc><image:title>savingmoney</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2014-02-16T15:55:59+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2014/02/07/the-teacher-in-me/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2014/02/img_1467.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_1467</image:title><image:caption>Our theme for the banquet was The 70s, with quite a few in attendance, including the band, dressing accordingly. 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blogger in search of a bird's eye view of the grid.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/img_0689.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0689</image:title><image:caption>Professor Tom Lee and his amazing grid on the 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Frank Sinatra is singing "I Did It My Way."</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_4010.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4010</image:title><image:caption>Another day at the office for the monkey.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_4009.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4009</image:title><image:caption>A literal monkey on his back.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_4008.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4008</image:title><image:caption>Mending nets.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_4007.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_4007</image:title><image:caption>The restaurant beside the small 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Choufani</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_0262.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0262</image:title><image:caption>A large group came together for the choice theory conference on Sunday.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/img_0241.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0241</image:title><image:caption>Beirut sunset</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-10-24T16:02:13+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/10/12/its-been-awhile/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/1308277.jpg</image:loc><image:title>1308277</image:title><image:caption>Choice theory from a unique perspective. 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INVITED!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-24T02:11:54+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/09/14/compelling-reasons-to-teach-choice-theory-to-students/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/img_0633.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0633</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/img_0635.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0635</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-18T03:41:39+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/09/09/it-is-more-important-that-i-like-them/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/img_0629.jpg</image:loc><image:title>IMG_0629</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-12T12:29:58+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/09/05/the-rest-of-the-story-part-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/i-005_sb_exit_407_04.jpg</image:loc><image:title>i-005_sb_exit_407_04</image:title><image:caption>Driving on Hwy 5 from Los Angeles to northern California can provide a lot of time to think.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/glasser-conference-presentation-4812.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Glasser conference presentation, 4,8,12</image:title><image:caption>Jeff Tirengel's picture of me presenting during the first breakout session with Glasser in the background.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/iphoto.jpg</image:loc><image:title>iPhoto</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-21T14:31:44+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/09/03/the-rest-of-the-story-part-1/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/image-2.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Image 2</image:title><image:caption>Diane Gossen and Bill Glasser share a moment at the conference.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/image-1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Image 1</image:title><image:caption>Bill and Carleen Glasser during the 2012 international conference.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/image.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Image</image:title><image:caption>Bill Glasser at the banquet, held on the last evening of the conference, June, 2012.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-09-23T04:46:09+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/29/william-glasser-a-life-to-celebrate/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/journal-cover-017.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Journal cover 017</image:title><image:caption>Bill and Carleen Glasser (2007)</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-12-29T11:14:10+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/24/i-will-miss-you-bill/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/journal-cover-012.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Journal cover 012</image:title><image:caption>Bill Glasser, as we were watching a basketball game together.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2014-08-17T21:47:02+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/20/good-morning-mr-kinney/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/image.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Image</image:title><image:caption>Chris Kinney, in his classroom at Lower Lake High School.</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-20T18:57:55+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/16/hey-it-works/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/slide11.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Slide1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-16T21:01:00+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/13/gentle-parenting-and-thank-you-milo/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/airphoto.jpg</image:loc><image:title>airphoto</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/006e214472c3e8ef1fd9243c6981d1df.jpg</image:loc><image:title>006e214472c3e8ef1fd9243c6981d1df</image:title><image:caption>A great list for parents, but just as great for the rest of us, too!</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-14T12:44:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/08/02/the-world-according-to-wilson/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/cast_away-tom-hanks.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cast_away-tom-hanks</image:title></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/08/cast-away-wilson-volleyball1.jpg</image:loc><image:title>cast-away-wilson-volleyball1</image:title></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-02T17:38:04+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/07/31/california-senate-commends-william-glasser/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/bill-2-psychotherapy-conf-dec-05.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill 2, Psychotherapy Conf, Dec 05</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser, presenting at the Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference, 2005</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/bill-maybe-after-med-school.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Bill maybe after med school</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser, shortly after graduating from medical school, about to begin his psychiatric residency.</image:caption></image:image><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/first-stop-078.jpg</image:loc><image:title>First Stop 078</image:title><image:caption>William Glasser and Brad Smith</image:caption></image:image><lastmod>2013-08-01T17:00:23+00:00</lastmod><changefreq>monthly</changefreq></url><url><loc>https://thebetterplan.org/2013/07/27/19-ways-to-lead-rather-than-boss-2/</loc><image:image><image:loc>https://thebetterplan.org/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/leadership-development-training.jpg</image:loc><image:title>Leadership Road 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